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Family & Relationships: Lack Of Life
Hi All I`m 41 years old Male and have been with my partner for 19 years. We have 3 kids and apparently she loves me ! My problem is this :- I dont Drink, Smoke, or go to the Pub at all, in fact its got to the point were i dont feel ...

Created on Jul 16 2008 at 23:57 by Renegadeshania

Dec 1 2008
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Emotional: Jealousy
I am a 32 year old guy living in Amsterdam, Netherlands. I moved here with my girlfriend and I am going through the most heartwrenching times I can remember now, because my girlfriend has gotten a job where she meets a lot of guys, and...

Created on Nov 21 2008 at 18:45 by dem

Nov 30 2008

Family & Relationships: Boyfriend
my boyfriend of 9 months he is brillant i couldnt ask for anymore from him. but recently he has turned wierd, well i dont know how else to say it but he has started reading all my emails and has changed all my passwords to my email ac...

Created on Nov 30 2008 at 02:13 by help!!

Nov 30 2008

Family & Relationships: Partner Spending Too Much Time Surfing...
My partner seems to spend hours on the computer.. He's created an account, password protected it, hides his phone and even takes it to the bathroom with him. I know hes not having an affair as he's always at work and comes straight hom...

Created on Oct 29 2008 at 23:36 by xox_bananna_xox

Nov 26 2008

Family & Relationships: Online Chatrooms
found out hubby has been going on to online chatrooms/ sex sites . says it was just for a joke , but im finding it hard to get my head around it....

Created on Nov 26 2008 at 10:27 by kittykat

Nov 26 2008

Sex: Hymen Problem
Hello, Im a 19 year old female who has had sex before. With my first attempt the pain from trying to break my hymen was so bad we had to stop half way through therefore didnt manage to break it. We then a few weeks later tried this ...

Created on Nov 24 2008 at 15:42 by maczy

Nov 24 2008

Drugs: Cannabis Mood Swings
Hi my husband and I have been together for 15 years. He has always smoked the strongest weed that you can get. He has periods of abstinence in which he is becoming increasingly violet and scathing towards me. We have 2 boys aged 8 a...

Created on Oct 24 2008 at 15:56 by Sazzal

Nov 21 2008

Family & Relationships: Faithfull To One Man
Dear readers, I have been feeling so very torn for several weeks. My presenting issue, is that i seem unable to remain attracted to one man, be faithful and secure a lasting relationship. I have been in relationships since the age o...

Created on Nov 13 2008 at 14:27 by laura77

Nov 21 2008

Family & Relationships: Marriage On The Rocks! Help!
Hi I've been with my wife for nearly ten years, married for 7.We have 3 gorgeous kids together, twins aged 18 months and a 4 year old, and - I thought - everything was going pretty OK until she turned round a month ago and said she i...

Created on Nov 11 2008 at 13:44 by daddy0

Nov 21 2008

Family & Relationships: Can Some One Explain?
hi, i was with my ex boyfriend for 6 years and we split cos he thought there was something missing between us, he kept in contact with me cos he wanted to see my dog, we ended up back together as we were walking the dog together we spl...

Created on Nov 19 2008 at 17:23 by confusedgirl

Nov 19 2008

Family & Relationships: I Need Some Advice
Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a son together who is 2 and I have an 8 year old son from a previous relationship. Things have never been easy for us and things have always been a bit rocky but we always seem t...

Created on Nov 19 2008 at 11:01 by missymish

Nov 19 2008

Family & Relationships: I Am Right Or Wrong
I am having an argument with my girlfriend and I need an outside opinion. I bought her a pair of boots but got the wrong size and cannot return them and when I toldher this, she suggested that her mother might buy them. I said ok grea...

Created on Nov 16 2008 at 06:10 by darkel

Nov 16 2008

Sex: Do Men Not Like To Date Women Who Are Virgins In Their 20s?
Do men not like to date women who are virgins in their 20s?...

Created on Jul 20 2008 at 21:54 by lf156

Nov 11 2008

Family & Relationships: I Dunno What To Do
Hi, im 38 and my partners 27 , i have 4 kids from my former marriage . Me and my partner have sorta come to a sticky point in our relationship and i dont know what to do , i get angry with him for no real reason and we often argue , We...

Created on Aug 21 2008 at 20:41 by sam

Nov 11 2008

Family & Relationships: Tea Time
I was at skwl once and i came out of the skwl gates and there was my mum! I was with my boyfriend and my mum saw us. Then all of a sudden i heard her shouting at me she was waving her arms in the air jumping around and she sed "DOES HE...

Created on Nov 2 2008 at 14:47 by XxXCatXxX96XxX

Nov 11 2008

Family & Relationships: Dont Know What To Do
i need some advice about a guy im with i met him 3 years ago on line and at first we really hit it off he used to call me every day and we would chat for hours. we met a few weeks later with my friends and things just went from there, ...

Created on Nov 10 2008 at 11:04 by chick08

Nov 11 2008

Family & Relationships: Help Would Be Thanked Alot On This..
ok.. here goes.. i don`t know weather i love my boyfriend or not anymore, even as much as i did ..fallen out of love with him :S...but i think i love/crushing on someone else..Ive just kinda realized :S..i do care alot for my current b...

Created on Nov 9 2008 at 21:30 by sammie

Nov 11 2008

Emotional: Am I Kidding Myself???
I have had feelings for my best friend for over a year now, i've managed to keep them hidden i think until one night a few weeks ago when we were both drunk, we ended up kissing. As i'm overweight and to me at least he is one of the we...

Created on Nov 9 2008 at 10:00 by hurt and confused

Nov 9 2008

Family & Relationships: How Do I Break Up With Him?
hi, i am 20 years old, i have been with my partner for 3 years, we have a 9 month old son. For the past year my partner has been paranoid that I have cheated on him (I havent) he was also out of work for most of my pregnancy and worked...

Created on Nov 8 2008 at 22:31 by dani87

Nov 8 2008

Family & Relationships: My Husband Likes To Tell His Friends Bad Things Of Me
I am 30 years Asian and my husband is 45 years Caucasian, we have been together for 3 years and have 1,5 years lovely son. Just to let you know that I have been told as an interesting person, sexy and still in shape even after having a...

Created on Nov 6 2008 at 16:20 by iamdepressed

Nov 6 2008

Family & Relationships: 5 Years Of Confusion
I met my bf 5 years ago, we were working in the same company at that time. He was telling me at that time he is divorced and he has no where to go since he cant go home as his ex-wife still stay in his house with their daughter. I took...

Created on Nov 6 2008 at 09:17 by BUNNY

Nov 6 2008

Family & Relationships: Seperated At 11yrs
i have recentley seperated from my partner of 11yrs and totally confused about my feelings. in the 11 years we had been together we had some ups and downs and got through them all, but over the last year my feelings for him dissape...

Created on Nov 3 2008 at 16:10 by uncertain

Nov 5 2008

Family & Relationships: My Lady Broke Up With Me
i have been having a relationship with a lady for about 8 months now,we work together for 2 hours a night 5 days a week and this is how our relationship started,she is married and has been for about 25 years but the last 8 years she ha...

Created on Nov 1 2008 at 13:47 by dave

Nov 1 2008

Family & Relationships: I Can't Stop Thinking About My Ex
Please help, I am in turmoil. I was with my ex-boyfriend on and off for 7 years. We got together when I was 17 and split up when I was 24. I ended our relationship because I had slept with someone else. I then immediately started a rel...

Created on Oct 31 2008 at 00:14 by Claire

Oct 31 2008

Family & Relationships: Cat And Boyfriend Don't Get Along
Seriously. This is my problem. My boyfriend and I adopted our cat a few months ago, and the two of them have never gotten along. My boyfriend is not terribly tolerant of the cat's quirks (bad) behaviour, and thinks that punishing t...

Created on Oct 24 2008 at 18:18 by figment

Oct 24 2008

Family & Relationships: Tied By A Tread.....
For all the things in the world, there is one thing that I hate the most......a "broken family". For years, I have devoted my life to bind my family relationship together (a true Chinese culture if I say so myself). Everytime if there ...

Created on Oct 22 2008 at 16:39 by New_man

Oct 22 2008

Family & Relationships: Separated For Three Months
Need advise. I left my husband three months ago because we have not been getting along for the past year, since he has started a new job that he hates, he has been coming home in bad moods and being mean to me because of it. I couldnt ...

Created on Oct 21 2008 at 21:06 by WM

Oct 21 2008

Family & Relationships: Living Apart
i have recently separated from my partner and desperatly want her back. we have a son together and she is my world. i really dont think i can be without her....

Created on Oct 21 2008 at 18:58 by paul l

Oct 21 2008

Family & Relationships: Help !!
well i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months... previous to this i was with my first love, he broke my heart and i dont think i ever really got over him before i met my present man. we have had 10 odd months, i love him more than a...

Created on Oct 21 2008 at 12:43 by dani3ll3

Oct 21 2008

Family & Relationships: Personality Clashed Between Me And My Gf
I have been in a relationship with a girl that I work with for the last 6 months .... she is 2 yrs elder than me ... she is 27 ..... we were going around well for nearly 5 months .... but since the last 1 month things are not going wel...

Created on Oct 20 2008 at 21:36 by emotion

Oct 20 2008

Family & Relationships: Should I End It?
hi, well ive been with my partner on and off for over a year. After 3 months together we had an unplanned pregnancy to deal with, and now have a baby boy. But while i was pregnant the relationship between me and my partner started to g...

Created on Oct 16 2008 at 01:15 by angel_2008

Oct 20 2008

Family & Relationships: Am I Being Paranoid
hi everyone I have only been in a relationship for 5 weeks trouble is we tend to see each other only once a week and prob one night over the weekend when he doesn't have his children, also he works nights 2 weeks a month which does...

Created on Oct 18 2008 at 15:03 by poppy

Oct 18 2008

Family & Relationships: Settle Down Or Up And At Em'?
Hello forum! I'm incredibly glad to have found you, any advice you could offer would be much appreciated. I request you don't write me off as a s%ut immediately (for that is how I am mentally feeling), please respond with kindness if a...

Created on Oct 13 2008 at 12:06 by DalaiLama

Oct 16 2008

Family & Relationships: What Did I Do Wrong?
I am a sane hardworking 37yo female who doesn't suffer fools gladly so how on earth have I managed to find myself in a situation which has made me completely paranoid and miserable? A bloke I hadn't seen for years had come back on the...

Created on Oct 6 2008 at 22:42 by blue eyes

Oct 15 2008

Family & Relationships: Love Or Lost - Head Or Heart ???
I have somehow managed to get myself in the biggest mess in my life ever and i'm not sure where to start! ... I'm a 28 year old man and was dating a lovely 21 year old lass for around 8 months. I was madly in love with her she was t...

Created on Oct 14 2008 at 21:33 by GlennA2k8

Oct 15 2008

Family & Relationships: Help With Relationship
Hi, I really need some advice. I'm currently seeing a man who is separated from his wife and two kids. For the past year I have felt like a mistress though things have slightly improved. He has never really committed to the relation...

Created on Oct 9 2008 at 11:53 by JazzyB

Oct 14 2008

Family & Relationships: Single Life Vs. Relationship
I'm 20 year old man and I have been with my 18 year old girlfriend for around 8 months now. Recently she went off to uni and it has caused us problems. We are both real worriers and it can cause friction between us although we are comp...

Created on Oct 13 2008 at 15:36 by troubledbm

Oct 13 2008

Family & Relationships: Should I Stand By My Demand?
My boyfriend and I, was going for 8 1/2 years we had our ups and downs, but what relationship doesn't. When we had our son he finally realized that he wasn't happy and wanted to leave the relationship. I didn't stop him because I'm not...

Created on Oct 7 2008 at 16:30 by sadie d

Oct 13 2008

Family & Relationships: I Don't Know How To Feel Anymore
Hi and thanx for wanting to listen - I don't know how to feel any more. I had been having a no strings relationship with a guy, which was fine by me. No ties, freedom to date and sleep with other people if either him or me chose to d...

Created on Oct 11 2008 at 02:31 by cj

Oct 11 2008

Family & Relationships: How To Build Up Trust.
my husband and i have has some problems recently with him being unfaithful i have had him back but i dont trust him and dont know how to build it up again.he works near this woman and she has a lot of problems with drugs and debts and...

Created on Oct 4 2008 at 17:34 by ponty1964

Oct 6 2008

Family & Relationships: Being The Older Woman...
Hi I am interested to hear from women who are about 5-10 years older than their male partner. I have been with my partner for nearly 6 years and we've had our ups and downs but sometimes I just think he is really immature. At other ...

Created on Sep 6 2008 at 00:20 by M

Sep 29 2008

Family & Relationships: Driving Me Crazy
i never thought it would get to this, but i'm crazy in love with this girl. the only problem is shes going out with my best friend, what do i do? ...

Created on Sep 21 2008 at 16:18 by kipi Kid

Sep 24 2008

Family & Relationships: Advice On Break Ups
Hello I am new to this site so i dont know what to expect but i was wondering if anybody has any advice for me. The reason for me being on here is that i have just had a really long term girl friend break up with me. We were tog...

Created on Sep 17 2008 at 20:05 by r100per

Sep 24 2008

Emotional: Torn
Ive never done anything like this before, but i cheated on my boyfriend of almost 4 years a few weeks ago. Ever since its been killing me. We were on a break and the guy it happened with has been a friend of mine for a long time, but r...

Created on Sep 23 2008 at 20:39 by Discodood

Sep 23 2008

Drugs: Smoking Canabis During Pregnancy
Hi, I have just found out that I am 7 weeks pregnant, great news for me and my partner. I have quite a serious problem which is I smoke canabis, about 5/6 aday. I know this is harmful to the baby but is their any major factors that I...

Created on Dec 7 2005 at 17:21 by hunny

Sep 23 2008

Family & Relationships: Forgiving Ur Husband
my husbands ex has been in our lives since we met hes admitted to meeting up with her behind my back aving coffee popping to her house giving her money etc the final straw was when i found out hed taken her away for the nite i threw hi...

Created on Jun 19 2008 at 17:14 by ponty1964

Sep 18 2008

Family & Relationships: Problems In Bed Damaged Our Relationship And Communication
Me(35 and my g/f 28 ) split up just over two months ago after being together over 2yrs. It was on the whole a lovely happy relationship, we have so many great memories, however a while back for some reason i was unable to perform in be...

Created on Sep 17 2008 at 21:37 by mrblond

Sep 18 2008

Sex: How Perpared
in sex with my wife on that time my tool is not eracting,but i thinck in mind as a dreams as i m seeing ,my friend doing the sex with my wife so my tool is eracting,i dont know abouth this problem,any one help me how sort out this....

Created on Sep 1 2008 at 16:21 by my problem g

Sep 18 2008

Family & Relationships: Where Is My Relationship Going?
I have been in a relationship for the past seven years. We didn't get off to the best of starts, I wasn't looking for a relationship and thought is was just going to be a casual affair, but he soon started to tell me he had feelings f...

Created on Aug 12 2008 at 08:28 by Lorna

Sep 17 2008

Family & Relationships: What To Do???
ive been wih my partner for nearly 5 years, we have 3 lovely children 1 from previous relatiosnhip,now ive been one of these people whos parents didnt really give a damn and got shoved from pillow to post most of my childhood,never got...

Created on Sep 12 2008 at 11:30 by mummyto3

Sep 12 2008